Emotional Intelligence and Mental Poisons

It’s such a great evening! Today feels like one of those days where Miracles happen all day long.  Having epiphanies that transform your process to having to share you some of the day’s miracles so far. First, the almighty has let us wake up again to shine is his glory. It’s wonderful to be alive because there are so many things that we need to do here on our life on earth that requires us to take a certain responsibility towards the things that we are able to create and to bring into manifest our material world and reality.

There are a few things however that would seem like prerequisites to achieving what we can essentially manifest. This brings to fore the essence of being emotionally intelligent. Emotional intelligence helps then in determining the source of your emotions. When we feel angry, frustrated or down, it’s good to keep track of recent events in order to figure out the source of how you are feeling. To attract good and pleasant things in life, we need to have a “good” feeling. Seek good feelings, when you are feeling good, know that something is right and the universe is working for your greater good. It requires you therefore to be emotionally intelligent to trace your way into having this good feeling.

As you begin to realize this, you will soon be in a form of control and this will empower your life. When you are in control, you can avoid some mental Poisons. Mental Poisons are toxic thoughts that can destroy your normal positive thought process and will eventually lead to unpleasant feelings coming up. There are a variety of these so-called Mental Poisons that being aware of what they are and how they come about is also of utmost importance to you. Mental poisons include; Hate, resentment, regret and the most dangerous; violent thoughts. I don’t intend to go into further details into these mental and emotional toxics, I believe my purpose ends at making them aware to you.

On a last note, I just want to touch on a topic which is not so new in social dynamics. Assuming we have all come to face the fact that the world is a place full of gossip. People will always gossip, and its gossip that has made some rich people in Hollywood through magazines and shows. You know them, since we are very westernized in this part of the world! But the point is who or what do you talk about when you are in circles; at the bars and the lounges, is what is most important. You see, if you talk about Millionaires, you are surely not wasting your time as you will be talking about how they made their money and for obvious reasons, you will surely start studying their methods and the like. Thing is, people talk about those that interest them. It’s therefore good to talk about the people that we seek to be like. For example you could talk about personal inspirational figures who make you wish to achieve greater heights and realize a higher degree of self actualization. This is not bad, as it will lead you to seek better objectives through positive talk rather than Negative. A small book from one of my early tertiary school said at the back; “Small minds talk about people, average minds talk about events and great minds talk about ideas”. Choose which one you want to be and make choice of the things you and your circles talk about. Aim to improve the whole team! Do not aim to be the only ‘smart’ or better one among the group, aim to make the whole group improved or just hang around improved personalities altogether. Choosing improved personalities to hang around should be one of the best moves you can make if you want to improve yourself and the things you attract into your life.  I rest my case for the time-being, more posts to follow where we shall discuss social dynamics and the key roles social groups have on individuals.